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Customer stalking

Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2023 9:24 am
by BatUtilityBelt
I don't know whether it's just me or more of us, but I'm getting so tired of creepy commercial use of our data that I'm opting out when it gets bad. Here are some examples:

This morning I got an email from Chicago Music Exchange, and the subject was literally "We Caught You Looking!". Of course the email included a link to a guitar I had looked at on their site. I don't need follow-up stalking emails telling me they're tracking my activity. So I unsubscribed from Chicago Music Exchange emails, because there's apparently no option to just opt out of the stalking.

It's not unique. Last week I had the same situation with Eastwood sending me an email titled "Did you forget something?" and a picture of a guitar I checked out there. I unsubscribed from Eastwood emails and emailed Mike to tell him why. That went unanswered.

The week before that, I had to tell a Musician's Friend salesman to take me out of his database several times because I don't do business with Musician's Friend. He had to take me out of Guitar Center's database too, because apparently he was being prompted to email, text, and call me from both companies (because they're really the same company). So I don't see the deal of the day emails anymore because I don't want also their stalking.

At least Sweetwater is good enough to note when customers don't want out-of-band hassles, so I haven't yet had this opt-out situation with them. Bottom line, am I the a-hole, or is it just too annoying how companies are trying too hard to up customer engagement?

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2023 10:46 am
by uwmcscott
Yes, it's quite pervasive. VPN's and browser security can help somewhat, but for the most part if you want to play the game you end up giving up some info.

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2023 11:24 am
by redman
I also hate that, for me Sweetwater is even worse I was recently looking at an expensive guitar on their site and an hour later one of their "sales engineer" was on the phone with me trying to get me to send them almost $5000 for a guitar which I would never purchase I was just simply taking a curious look. I'm sure they not only tracked my browsing but also checked how much gear I have purchased over the years.

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2023 4:32 pm
by tonebender
Recently I have put a couple things on my watchlist on both Reverb and Fleabay. In all cases I get a price reduction offer from the seller. I like that so if and when I do order something I watch it first and wait for the discount. Sweetwater is my "go to" for online new music stuff in general.

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2023 4:34 pm
by mozz
tonebender wrote: Fri Sep 22, 2023 4:32 pm Recently I have put a couple things on my watchlist on both Reverb and Fleabay. In all cases I get a price reduction offer from the seller. I like that so if and when I do order something I watch it first and wait for the discount. Sweetwater is my "go to" for online new music stuff in general.
Exactly.

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2023 8:16 am
by golem
Probably cookies if they're emailing you after being on their site.

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2023 11:36 am
by andrewsrea
tonebender wrote: Fri Sep 22, 2023 4:32 pm Recently I have put a couple things on my watchlist on both Reverb and Fleabay. In all cases I get a price reduction offer from the seller. I like that so if and when I do order something I watch it first and wait for the discount. Sweetwater is my "go to" for online new music stuff in general.
Good advice all around! I never used the 'watchlist' and will try that.

Everybody now a days are sending me the 'you left this in your cart' even if I did not. AI.

Speaking of, a great meme I stole today:
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Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2023 4:01 pm
by toomanycats
Stalking? What's that?

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2023 9:17 am
by Rollin Hand
toomanycats wrote: Sat Sep 23, 2023 4:01 pm Stalking? What's that?
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Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2023 9:35 am
by tlarson58
It's unnerving. Today I'm going to ask Alexa all kinds of questions about...um.. Cleveland vacations and see what starts poppping up on my computer. I just know that people are listening.

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2023 12:10 pm
by BatUtilityBelt
tlarson58 wrote: Sun Sep 24, 2023 9:35 am It's unnerving. Today I'm going to ask Alexa all kinds of questions about...um.. Cleveland vacations and see what starts poppping up on my computer. I just know that people are listening.
Yup. Do it now, before AI is smart enough to know you're messing with it. :lol:

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2023 12:45 pm
by Rollin Hand
One day at work, I was working on a project regarding a company, and our team talked about it.

The same say, ads for their product started showing on my teammate's computer.

We are through the looking glass.....

Re: Customer stalking

Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2023 11:10 pm
by honyock
That is why I stopped going to the Keyence website at work. Literally non-stop marketing emails and phone calls if I look at one thing.